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Overcoming Self-Centeredness: A Biblical Guide to Living Intentionally.


As human beings, we all tend to be self-centered. Our thoughts, words, and actions can often revolve around our desires and needs at the expense of those around us. However, as followers of Christ, we are called to put others first and live intentionally for the sake of the Kingdom. This message will explore Biblical principles and passages that can help us overcome Self-centeredness and live purposefully.

Proverbs 28:13 reminds us, "Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy." This verse highlights the importance of acknowledging our Self-centeredness and confessing it to God. By admitting our shortcomings, we can begin to take steps towards overcoming them. Confessing our sins and asking for forgiveness is the first step towards living a life focused on Christ and His mission.

Jeremiah 17:9 reminds us that "the heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?" This verse highlights the importance of guarding our hearts and minds against the temptation towards Self-centeredness. By keeping watch over our desires and motivations, we can prevent ourselves from falling into sinful behavior patterns. We can ask the Holy Spirit to help us identify areas where we may act out of selfishness and work to overcome those behavior patterns.

In Mark 7:20-23, Jesus reminds us that what comes from our hearts defiles us, not external actions or behaviors. This passage encourages us to examine our hearts and motivations and seek transformation from the inside out. By allowing the Holy Spirit to work in us, we can cultivate a heart focused on God and His purposes rather than our self-interest.

I Corinthians 3:1-3 reminds us that, as believers, we are called to "live by the Spirit and not by the flesh." This passage underscores the importance of relying on the Holy Spirit to guide our actions and decisions. We can ask the Holy Spirit to help us overcome our tendencies towards Self-centeredness and to lead us in living intentionally for the sake of the Kingdom.

Galatians 5:16-26 provides a helpful framework for living a life focused on God rather than our desires. This passage reminds us to "walk by the Spirit" and to "keep in step with the Spirit." By aligning our lives with the Holy Spirit's guidance, we can overcome our Self-centered tendencies and cultivate a life characterized by love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.


Overcoming Self-centeredness is an ongoing process that requires intentional effort on our part. However, by confessing our sins, guarding our hearts, examining our motivations, relying on the Holy Spirit, and aligning our lives with Biblical principles, we can live with purpose and intentionality. As we seek God's guidance in our lives, He will transform us from the inside out, empowering us to live for His glory and the good of those around us. Let us embrace the calling to live selflessly and to pursue Christ with all our hearts, minds, and souls.

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